While I am not willing to jinx myself by saying that my former brown thumb has turned a definite shade of forest green, I will go as far to pronounce it as being beyond mint green, ahead of pea soup green, and somewhere in between lime green and moss green. Basically it's pretty well full of color at this point and my plants are a lot happier because of it.
How did I get to this point? Mostly by allowing my plants to be in the environment they wanted to be in versus where I wanted them to be (i.e. on the window sill where they receive the proper light versus the side table where they look the prettiest...or a surface that is close enough to the window where they won't be burned but not directly on the window where they will hang the prettiest). It is a give and take for sure, and lots of moving plants around to their best staged spots before company comes over or pictures are taken.
I also pay attention to the little homes, or pots, that they live in whereas before I'd keep them in whatever was the most attractive and pretty for the table they were on. Now don't get me wrong here, they are all still in decor appropriate milk glass or other pretty containers, but I now recognize (and no longer ignore) when it is time to upgrade them to larger pieces...or smaller pots in instances where I neglected them before and am attempting to nurse them back to health.
Allow me to introduce you to my official Plant I.C.U. as my Husband calls it:
It's the place where plants come to get a health revival. Some go from dying plants to cut stems that are left in water alone for several weeks while they grow roots...eventually being transported to dirt again to come back to new full health.
Then there is the real estate section where new/old pots and inner pots (the not so pretty vessels that go inside of the pretty vessels) go to wait for a new plant owner...one who needs either a larger or smaller pot.
I visit the I.C.U. weekly during my Sunday plant waterings making sure that the cuttings have enough water in their little vases and ensuring that those that have been put into dirt haven't gone to sh** again.
And as for those that are moving to a new home...
I just make sure that the new digs are large/small enough for them to comfortably adjust to for a good period of time before I have to change things out again.
One thing is for sure, plants don't like having their homes constantly changed or bothered so moving them to new locations and changing the pots is kept to an as-needed status over here. Again putting their needs above my own Eww-I-don't-really-like-it-there preferences.
And yes I just wrote an extremely long post on my houseplant journey, but someone out there may care to read it...so there!